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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 00:23

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

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My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

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I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

How did the trans issue metastasize within just a decade from being a question of kindness and tolerance to a tiny minority to convulsing a whole society?

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Would this be the day?

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

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His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

(And it was in our own minds.)

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

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As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

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Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

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When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I have no regrets .

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

What is the nastiest thing you had your wife do and she loved it?

Im still living with it.

I was very sick at this time too.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Why is rap* a crime?

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

When she asked me how she looked .

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

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I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

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And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

This is soul school!.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He knew the spot.

But, we were locked up after school.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Especially a lifetime of it.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Who then, do I blame.?

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Comes on , in middle age.

We were not on the streets..

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

She wouldn,t have been !

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I said to her

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Ive learnt so much.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I could never make a relationship work though!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

What did i know ?

So whats the point in blame.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

My family never makes their pension either.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

She was in good health!

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

He resisted the act ,that day.

She married twice! .

Why did i forgive my father ?

I waited trembling.

So, i spoilt her more .

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Where the ultimate outsiders.

It was going to be , some day.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

I was scared of men, in general

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

All the time i was locked up.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Put me off passion for life!!

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I was seconnd youngest,

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I had hoped to write a book about this .

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

He was dying to do it , i knew.

She loved him until the end.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I never cut or harmed myself..

I don,t even have a pension.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

And i lived it daily.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

I was 9 years of age.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I write beautiful poetry .

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

We all went to grammer schools

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

But it wasn’t much.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

She found it foreign!.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

My life is so biszare .

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I couldn’t, believe it.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

One cannot live in the past .

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I think the readers, may guess!

I will be 64.